Coming out queerer

A reflection on gender, sexuality, identity, and other such nonsense.

Photo by Cecilie Johnsen on Unsplash

This is a bit of a strange story, but I’ve always been a bit of a queerdo (queer weirdo).

Every time I found myself in a romantic relationship, I found myself somehow compelled to offer reassurance to my partner about one thing in particular. Now I’ve always been primarily physically attracted to men. But when I found myself in love, I…